FALLEN

Memories of collecting colorful fallen leaves of variety and pressing them between

two sheets of waxed paper.

 

AMAZING RECONSTUCTION OF SHANIDAR NEADERTHAL WOMAN'S FACE

BBC NEWS : FACE OF 75,000 YEAR OLD NEANDERTHAL WOMAN 

The skull was smashed flat.  In this story of cutting edge Archaeology and Science, despite the many pieces being soft, the skull was reconstructed, the "fat" and "muscles" added in the right places, and the face came forth.

Excerpt:

The rebuilt skull was then surface-scanned and a 3D print given to Dutch artists Adrie and Alfons Kennis, who are renowned for their skill in creating anatomically faithful representations of ancient people from their bone and fossil remains.

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BURIAL

 

TIME TO RECORD FAMILY MEMORIES : ALMOST LEGAL (MORE CONVERSATION TRIGGERS !)

Here are more conversation starters or interview questions!

When you were a teenager did you have paid jobs? 

Were you expected to work around the house or yard?

Did you get an allowance?

Did you have a sense of being rich or poor?

Did you do volunteer work?

Who was your best friend?  How did that person influence you or you influence them?

How did you feel about your life?

What subjects at school were interesting to you?

What activities were you involved with?

What did you want out of your life as a teenager?

Did you think about having a profession or career in the future? 

Were your parents both alive?

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TIME TO RECORD FAMILY MEMORIES : MOVING TOWARDS ADULTHOOD (MORE CONVERSATION TRIGGERS !)

Here are more conversation starters or interview questions!

What were you like when you were growing up?

What clothing did you wear?

Where did you live?  Were you in the city, suburbs, country?  Did you move?  (What changes did you experience by moving to a new place to live?)

Did you have siblings? Tell me about them. Did you have a special relationship with any of your siblings?  

What were your interests when you were twelve?

What, if any, religion were you raised in?  (Did you go through rituals such as Baptism or Confirmation? How did you learn about your religion? How has being raised in a religion effected you?)

Your family heritage: What is your ethnicity, race - how do you identify?

What values and beliefs did your family have?

Were your parents members of a political party? 

Do you recall an interest in world affairs?

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TIME TO RECORD FAMILY MEMORIES : SCHOOL DAYS (MORE CONVERSATION TRIGGERS !)

Here are more conversation starters or interview questions!

Tell me about your school days.

Did you go to nursery school, pre-school, or any special programs or classes as a child?

What toys or games did you have?

Did you make or create toys or games?

How about sports? Did you participate in a sport at school?

Did you go to dancing school?

Did you bring your lunch or have lunch at school?

Did you have a lunch box or a back pack?

What was your favorite food and least favorite food?

Did your parents teach you?  Sewing? Crafts? Swimming? 

Give you advice? 

Do homework with you?  Read to you?  Care about your grades?

Tell you about their days in school?

How much education did you have? Your parents have? Your grandparents have?

Were you an apprentice?

If someone asked you what you wanted to be when you "grew up?" what did you say?

As a child, what did you think about the adults?

What do you remember about your friends?  Where did you meet them? The neighborhood, church, some other place?

Did you like to read?

Where there any books you especially liked?

What about television programs? Radio programs?

Did you listen to or watch a certain show as a family?

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FALLING LEAVES

image from Graphics Fairy

Remembering childhood....  

Did you ever do the art project in which you gathered fallen leaves and then

 ironed them between two sheets of waxed paper?

 

TIME TO RECORD FAMILY MEMORIES : CHILDHOOD

Originally posted October 20 2022

TIME TO RECORD FAMILY MEMORIES

There is never a better time than NOW.  

If you can, record the interview.  

If interview is too intimidating a word, have instead a lovely chat.

Tell me about your childhood...

What is your earliest memory?

When did you start school?

Where did you go to school?

What  where your favorite subject(s) ? Least favorite?

Teachers?

Did you like school?  

What games did you play?

When you were five, what did you want to do when you grew up?

Do you have any hobbies or interests that began in your childhood?

Tell me about your parents...

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INTERVIEWING RELATIVES ! FORMAL AND INFORMAL INTERVIEWING

Originally posted On September 10th 2014...

Soon Thanksgiving will be here, and then the Holidays.  Of course, your best time to interview relatives may be when you go on a visit to them and life isn't overly busy.  Still, I find that visiting people during the holidays is a good time to talk about Old Days.

INTERVIEWING RELATIVES !  FORMAL AND INFORMAL INTERVIEWING

Some people respond to formal interviews better than others.

To do a FORMAL INTERVIEW you:

1) Contact the person and tell them that you want to interview them about the family history or focus on a specific aspect of family history.  Although this can be on the phone, in person is best.  Other people in this person's life need to give you both time and space and not interrupt.

2) Set up a time to focus on just that in advance that's good for both people, and be there.

3) Be prepared with a list of questions (at least to get you started) and a recording device.
(Whatever works for you.  Some people are still using cassette machines.  Some people are settling up more than one machine at a time "just in case" one of them fails."  Recording is sometimes a more natural process as taking notes can also be distracting or stop the process. You want to make eye contact, be comfortable, and listen too!)

The recording device sometimes intimidates people.  It may make the interview feel too important or heavy. You should tell them you intend to use one before hand, but it may help to put it out of the sight line.  Test your recorder to be sure it will pick up a voice from a few feet away.  Preserving the voice of a relative as they tell their story or give information can be very valuable, if you can keep doing technology updates with original recordings.  Our voices tell so much about us!

4) Set up water or tea or other beverages before you begin.  Avoid breaking the interview with eating food or other activities. Get into the flow.

5) If, however, it's going to be a long interview or a series of interviews, try to do the interview first before taking a meal or long break or wait until after the meal.  You and your interviewee will probably respond best to knowing how it's going to go.

To do an INFORMAL INTERVIEW you:

1) Show up and seize the moment. (It's good to have that recording equipment close.)

2) Let the other person pick the topic or gently guide them to what you want to know.

3) Lends itself more than a formal interview to including more than one person.

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MEMORY TABLE FOR DEPARTED LOVED ONES

From the Library of Congress, this Memory Table lithograph was designed 

by A. M. Bleichrode, circal 1974 in New York.

DEATH CERTIFICATES and BURIAL RECORDS : WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE?

In modern times the burial record is usually spawned from the mortuary that prepared the body for burial or cremated it.  The burial record will usually give information such as what cemetery, the name of a minister or priest or rabbi who conducted a ritual, and some other basic information. It is not a governmental civil records but the burial record and the death certificate seem to lean on each other. 

A death certificate is a governmental - civil report on what the person died of, the name of a doctor who had been treating that person or if an autopsy was performed.  It will often include the name of a spouse or next of kin, and don't be shocked but some people did not know the maiden name of their own mother!

Step one is to find a death certificate, as possible. Depending on location you might have to swear you are the spouse or child of the person who died.  But privacy laws vary and these records are being loaded into databases based on those privacy laws.

Yes, go ahead and check a TOMBSTONE PROJECT.

Step two is to contact the cemetery named and ask them for the burial record.  You might start by asking them for the plot location in advance of a visit.

Remember : Find A Grave TM and other such projects are TOMBSTONE PROJECTS.  There are more burials in that cemetery than the tombstones. Consider that:

There was never a tombstone or the cemetery is one that does not allow them.

That family members may have been buried in with an earlier burial that the tombstone does not include.

That family plots may not include the names of all the people buried in the plot.

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